"heartbreaks are okay" is a song of assurance that even if we go through gut-wrenching and heart-aching pain, the artist wants to remind us that things will eventually be okay. It serves as a good reminder that we would be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel without invalidating the painful feeling that comes with losing someone we love. In other words, we accept the reality that to love is to be vulnerable but at the same time, we must remain kind to ourselves and patient with the healing process.